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Equity or foolishness?

By: Belladonna

For the past six years I've attended church in a ward that had exclusive use of its building.  I have just moved into a different ward that has three congregations sharing the same facility on a rotating basis.  That means the time of day that I go to my meetings will switch every year.

I am accustomed to going to church in the morning.  That works for me.  This year will still do that.  Next year I will get bumped to the afternoon schedule.  Harrumph!  Grumble!  Drats!  I get it that change is a part of life, and I get it that we live in a dynamic, evolving faith.  But for crying out loud, this disruption of my routine seemed to serve no real point.

I was whining a bit to my husband about not looking forward to having to change schedules year after year.   Just when we get ourselves adapted to an AFTERNOON way of worship, then it will switch again.  Lamenting this fate, I said that I wished they would just assign us all a particular time and then STICK WITH IT.   I wouldn't even care if I got put in the afternoon slot, which to my way of thinking is less desirable.  I wanted something that would stick.

My husband is the kind of guy who does not question and does not complain when it comes to church matters.  He accepts whatever comes down the pike with absolute trust and faith.   Me, I question gravity.  In the end I accept whatever it is that the prophet and the local leaders ask.  But whether it is the suggestion to wear only one pair of earrings or shifts in how we conduct ourselves during temple ceremonies, I am forever speculating why things are done this way or that.  Over the years my husband and I have had our share of interesting discussions from these two different approaches.

So when I was challenging the policy of alternating time schedules, my beloved patiently explained that the reason for this was to be fair to everyone who shared the building, so no one group got stuck with the early or the late shift.  I balked.   Disrupting lives is equity?  I don't think so, I insisted.  In EVERY ward there will be people who, like me, prefer mornings and others who would rather go in the afternoon.  But does it serve anyone well - particularly families with young kids-to continually be changing the routine?   Besides, I declared, if they REALLY did it out of "fairness" then EVERY ward should change times, even if there is only one ward in the building.  He rolled his eyes and said I was just being silly.  Maybe I was.  But does the time change really  make building use more "fair"?

The reason I can accept it is that I know we are members of a GROWING, LIVING, CHANGING faith.  In small ways and big ways I understand that "We believe all that God has revealed, all that He does now reveal, and we believe that He will yet reveal many great and important things pertaining to the Kingdom of God." (Article of Faith #9)

Still, I do not think this musical chairs time of meetings has anything to do with inspiration or revelation.  I think it is tradition, and not one I appreciate.  I accept there WILL be changes in my church.   But for crying out loud, why do I have to keep getting used to a whole new Sabbath routine every year?  Maybe I'm just whining because I don't want to give up my Sunday afternoon nap,

But what it did raise for me was the whole issue of splitting hairs between what parts of the LDS way of life are DOCTRINE and therefore NOT open for debate and what parts are simply TRADITION.   We live in a world church.  Jesus Christ is the Savior whether you are LDS in China or Chicago.  Thomas B. Monson is the Prophet whether you are in Newark or the Netherlands.  The Book of Mormon is True every bit as much in Ghana as it is in Kalamazoo.  But there are some practices and policies and ways of doing things that I suspect have a lot more to do with cultural traditions than what God sees as the right way for us to live.  Those are the areas where I have no qualms about challenging with questions.  But how does one really tell which is which?

I am reminded of the the verse in the D& C that says:

"Wherefore, verily I say unto you that all things unto me are spiritual, and not at any time have I given unto you a law  which was temporal neither any man, nor the children of men; neither Adam, your father, whom I created. "  (D&C 29:34)

Maybe I should just put off the natural man and quit my whining.

Print | posted on Tuesday, July 22, 2008 10:33 AM | Filed Under [ Belladonna ]

Comments:

#1: Eric Nielson

Ummm, the prophet is Thomas S. Monson in Newark and the Netherlands - as long as we are splitting hairs :) .

And I believe the Book of Mormon is more true in Kalamazoo (my current home stake).

At any rate, a lot of this stuff is simply administration and policy, and certainly not doctrine. I think many of these types of decisions are based on which way will result in the least amount of complaining. And I think the church probably has this issue about right.

How do you tell which is which?

The scriptures are a pretty good basis for decision. Certain things are canonized while others are not.
7/22/2008 12:39 PM

#2: LRC

If you don't like to go to church in the afternoon, then just go in the morning. Nobody is holding your feet to the fire and forcing you to attend church in the afternoon. Okay, so you won't be attending your "assigned ward" but is that really a problem? You certainly won't be excommunicated for attending at a different time. You may not receive any callings from your unassigned ward, but you could always volunteer to feed missionaries, clean the building, take dinners to people with new babies, help people move in and out, and visit your neighbors anyway. And, you can still pay your tithing using the envelopes from your assigned ward's bishop's office.
7/22/2008 1:44 PM

#3: Dan Knudsen

We in Utah have been doing this forever and just adjust to whatever schedule we have each year, so stop whining and live with it--that's one of the benefits of having lots of Mormons in your area. Going to a different ward will cause several problems, which are worse than changing times each year: You may have trouble getting your temple recommend renewed; you will also have to learn new people each year; your Home Teachers and Visiting Teachers will think you're inactive and just saying that you're attending a different set of meetings; as will your bishop.

What was really upsetting was when we had a student ward in our building and they got the prime time all the time so they'd go to their ward; the rest of us had only the early and late schedules, which was really unfair. My thought was that if the students could only go to the prime time schedule, or be inactive, to hell with them, and let them be inactive, as they were going to end up that way anyhow--when were they ever going to grow up and act like adults? Better still, do away with student wards outside of BYU.
7/24/2008 11:27 AM

#4: Thomas J. Marriot, Jr.

No maybe about it. Stop whining so you can hear the Spirit when it actually speaks to you.
9/28/2008 2:09 AM

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